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We’ve all been Andy Sachs. Whether it’s at a high-pressure job or navigating the messy transition into motherhood, that deep-seated need to be “indispensable” can slowly swallow your true identity.

In Jungian psychology, we often talk about the Persona. It is a mask one wears to meet society’s expectations. For many of us, that mask looks like:
✨ Saying “I have no choice” while overextending our boundaries.
✨ Seeking external validation from a “perfectionist” figure in our lives.
✨ Using our achievements to hide a deep fear of inadequacy.

Here is the truth: When your mask becomes your face, you lose the person you were working so hard for in the first place.

Whether you’re a new mom struggling to find yourself between the demands of a tiny human, or a professional realizing your ambition has become a cage, remember: You always have a choice. You don’t have to wait for a “breaking point” to reclaim your boundaries. 📱💦

Let’s discuss: Have you ever looked in the mirror and realized you’ve become someone you didn’t intend to be? How are you reclaiming your “original” self today? 👇
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The Lukin Center Guide to Breaking the Cycle:

Look for the "Unmet Need": It’s rarely about the dishes or the schedule. Ami P. Kang, LCSW, suggests looking past the situation to find the underlying feeling. What do you actually need from your partner in this moment?

Feelings > Thoughts: Geoffrey Hillback, LCSW, reminds us that while thoughts can be argued, feelings are your truth. Sharing how a circumstance impacts you emotionally leaves less room for conflict and more room for connection.

Curiosity over Defensiveness: When things get heated, Jessyka Lombana, LCSW, recommends a simple but powerful question: "What am I not understanding about your experience?" Empathy is the bridge to real change.

Which of these shifts do you need to try the most? 💬 👇

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